Our first reaction to pain is to accuse the other.  The other can be something like the family, the lover, the friend, the stranger, the government.
Yet I remain convinced that the only fault we even still. Us as an human, we as a population.
To illustrate my point, here is an example. The manipulator can’t manipulate a person whose faith is right. Because, he take is power by the doubt of the “victims”. No doubt = no pain created by the manipulator.

 

Brands/traumas come from the past. They are ours we belong, and they are the deepest foundations of our psyche (individual or collective). Yet the highlight is gone, long time ago, but its influence remains palpable.

Now what we have to do other than accusing the other as if to be aware and act?

 

New medias like “Facebook” or a website are a place where peoples reveal or express themselves.  It’s a place that we are absent… and present.  Both can be true.  But, we can have a kind of ubiquity talent.  We can touch people far away from us.  We can learn about event for away from us and we can react to them and make things change.  Whatever we are not there.  We revealed and deal constantly with object of our intimity.